Three Positive Steps on Getting Back      
        Together After Breakup

What is more heartening than to have broken up with your partner? You might really be wondering what really lead to the break up. You might be thinking that it should not really have happened.

If you really love your partner and wants to get back together, there is really nothing that should stop you for pursuing that line of action. But there are some considerations that you should make before you do anything. You should first consider what really cause the break up. Do you have some course of action you can do to rekindle the love between you and your partner?

You might think that the good way to get back together is to call your ex and beg for his or her to return. That’s not the way to go!  Or you might just lock yourself in your room and cry your miserable fate. That‘s not good either.  If you are really serious of getting your partner back, there are these three points you have to consider:

Firstly, you must be humble enough to accept that things did happen. You cannot change that and the way to get back together is not to continue what has ended. But think of starting and planning a wholesome new relationship.  If you would think of what has happened, it is only to learn from it for the better and not to rationalise your past actions.

Secondly, getting back together does not begin by calling your partner. It would just mean continuing a relationship that has failed. This would not work out either. The best way is to let your emotions cool down and tries to figure out what caused the breakup and try to learn from it. The most common reason is our being overcome by emotions but rooted in our selfishness and pride. And so the best way to do is to be humble enough to accept our mistake and to do better next time. Start planning on what to follow for a new better relationship. Only after things have normalised, should you call your ex.

Thirdly, getting back together after breakup means planning for a new you. Right timing is of utmost importance when to approach your ex. When you think you ready and prepared to meet him or her, you can begin to plan when, where and how. When you are ready to rekindle your things, you will have better idea if really love him or her.  Forget about the past, but concentrate on getting back together with positives on your mind.  Forget who was at fault, but focus on forming new good relationship. Begin by talking to your ex casually and let friendship develop. Let things flow from there. In time you will find that getting back together is easily achieved than you would imagine.